When God Allows, But Doesn't Abandon Us
Life’s journey is filled with trials and tribulations that can test the very fabric of our being. There are moments when we question why God allows certain things to happen. Why would a loving God permit us to experience pain, heartbreak, or tragedy? Yet, in the midst of these struggles, we often find that while He allows us to walk through storms, He does not allow those storms to destroy us.
God’s Presence in the Midst of Trials
The Bible reminds us in Isaiah 43:2:
“When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.”
This verse does not promise that we won’t face waters, rivers, or fires. It promises that God will be with us as we face them. It is a powerful reminder that while God allows us to encounter challenges, He ensures that we are not consumed by them.
For example, in the story of Job, God allowed Satan to test Job’s faith by stripping away his wealth, health, and family. Job endured immense suffering, but God did not abandon him. In the end, Job’s faith remained steadfast, and God restored to him more than he had lost (Job 42:10-17).
Personal Reflection: Learning from Our Battles
Perhaps you’ve experienced a situation where you felt utterly broken—like being in an abusive relationship or facing the aftermath of a devastating car accident. It may feel like God wasn’t there, but the truth is, He was.
He allowed you to endure the pain but gave you the strength to leave, to heal, and to rebuild. He allowed the accident but spared your life. These moments, though heartbreaking, are not evidence of God’s absence but of His grace, which sustains us even in the darkest times.
Therapeutic Mental Health Practices Rooted in Faith
While leaning on God is essential, we are also called to care for our mental health actively. Here are a few ways to process difficult experiences while embracing biblical and therapeutic practices:
Meditate on God’s Word: Scripture can bring healing and hope. Verses like Psalm 34:18 ("The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit") remind us of God’s nearness.
Seek Godly Counsel: Proverbs 11:14 says, “Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety.” Speaking with a pastor, Christian counselor, or trusted mentor can help you process your pain in a healthy way.
Practice Gratitude: Even in trials, there are blessings. Keep a journal of things you’re thankful for. Gratitude shifts your perspective and helps you focus on God’s provision.
Ground Yourself in Prayer: Pour your heart out to God. Prayer is not only a way to communicate with Him but also a therapeutic release of emotions.
Engage in Mindfulness Practices: Techniques such as deep breathing or journaling, combined with Scripture meditation, can calm your mind and help you center your thoughts on God’s promises.
A Parable: The Fire and the Potter
There was once a potter who created beautiful vessels. One day, he molded a fragile clay jar and placed it into the fiery kiln. The jar cried out, “Why must I endure this heat? It is unbearable!”
The potter replied, “The fire will not destroy you. It is only refining you, making you stronger and more beautiful.”
The flames grew hotter, and the jar felt as if it would crack. Yet, the potter watched carefully, ensuring the fire did not consume the jar. After the kiln cooled, the potter removed the jar. Its surface gleamed with strength and beauty.
The jar marveled, “I thought I would perish in the fire.”
The potter smiled and said, “I allowed the fire to touch you, but I did not let it consume you. Now, you are prepared for the purpose I created you for.”
God’s Grace Through It All
In our darkest moments, it’s easy to believe that we are alone, but God never leaves us. He allows trials not to harm us but to mold us, strengthen us, and draw us closer to Him.
If you are walking through fire today, remember: you will not be consumed. Trust in God’s purpose for your life. Take hold of His promises, seek support from others, and care for your mental and emotional well-being. Your story isn’t over, and He is faithful to bring beauty from the ashes (Isaiah 61:3).
God may allow the storm, but He won’t let it consume you. Instead, He will use it to refine and strengthen you, preparing you for the blessings to come.
